Bridal Lingerie Considerations
by John Barnes
u've seen thousands of photos, tried on
dozens of gowns. But you may have missed some small items in
your search for the perfect wedding-day look -- those
essential unmentionables that go under the dress.
Undergarments provide the foundation necessary for your
outerwear to look how it's supposed to. They can change the
way your dress fits, so you'll need to purchase them before
your first fitting. Read on for the lowdown on lingerie.
BRA
The bra is the uberundergarment, that
leading piece of lingerie to which all others play
supporting roles. You'll need a good, supportive bra to lift
you up as you walk down the aisle and keep you comfortable
for hours of dining, dancing, and posing with relatives.
Many bridal boutiques offer decorative bras that are as
creative -- and nearly as costly -- as the gown itself.
While some of these elegant brassieres have unique
proportions that can be quite useful with the right gown,
make comfort your priority: You don't want insufficient
support or annoying wires cutting into your sides on your
wedding day. And remember, you can slip into provocative,
flimsy lingerie when you take the gown off.
Before you buy, ask about the store return
policy. You'll likely want to try on a few different bras
with your gown, so make sure that as long as you leave the
tags on, the garment is returnable for a full refund.
Regardless of which style you choose, try
not to have unrealistic expectations for your bra -- or
yourself -- on your wedding day. If it's too uncomfortable
to wear for a five-hour stretch on a normal afternoon, why
suffer?
SLIMMERS
While old-fashioned girdles have long been
out of style, you might try one of the several contemporary
slimming undergarments that use Lycra or Spandex rather than
stiff stays or ancient whalebone. Make sure you take your
bra, slimmer, stockings, and shoes to your fittings; a
body-support garment will give a slightly different shape
than just sucking in your gut, and changing your "support"
down the road will affect the way your gown fits.
PANTIES
As with the bra and slimmer, choose
panties that offer comfort over sex appeal. (There's just no
way to discreetly rearrange a pair of creeping panties
through a wedding gown!) If your gown has an unusually
slinky cut or is made of very thin material, you may want to
use pantyhose with built-in underwear.
HOSIERY
If you want to wear a fancy garter belt
with hooks to hold up thigh-high hose, make sure you choose
one that fits snugly around your waist -- and won't be seen
through your gown! The pressure of the hose can pull an
inexpensive, elastic garter belt downward, leading to
wrinkly knees and an evening of endless attemts to hitch up
your hose (a task nearly as hard to hide as panty-tugging).
A garter belt is a pretty superfluous
item, given the variety of sleek and sexy pantyhose
available. But some women feel extra sexy just knowing
they're wearing one. If you go with a garter, you'll need to
test it out to make sure you can bear the inconvenience.
Before your wedding, try on your gown --
with your undergarments -- under the watchful eye of a close
friend. Once you're sure you won't show more than you intend
to show, forget about it and have fun!
Getting the most out of your wedding day
shouldn't be contingent on your lingerie, but it will
definitely have an impact on your memories. Take a chance on
your styles, and do it differently than all others. Make
your day more special for bride and groom with the little
details that are so memorable.